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I'm so much stronger than I was when you met me two years ago. I
actually enjoy being single---a terrifying prospect to me two years
ago. Your retreat was a turning point for me
I will look back on it as the moment the tide turned for me.
Visions Anew Institute helps complete that educational process for
women facing divorce so that they have the tools to make good
choices in stressful times. Robert Boyd, Esq., Divorce Attorney
truly you are one of the keys that opened that "window of
opportunity" I never knew I ever had. And revalidated and encouraged
me at the most opportune moments.
Many women’s concern (about attending a Visions Weekend) is the time
and money. For me - it was the best investment of my LIFE!
Visions Anew was such an affirming and uplifting retreat
"......the weekend retreat was outstanding in all
ways!!!!.......thank you for the difference it has and will make in
my life
I can't thank you enough for all of your support, discussions,
pampering, organizing and all the other important programs too
numerous to mention this weekend at Divorce Survival School.
I came home a refreshed woman, smiling and happy so much so I can't
remember feeling this way for such a long time. I also came home
knowing I have now so many sisters going through this tough stuff
and together we are a united front.
Thank you for everything and I will continue to accept support from
the wonderful ladies at Visions Anew. I can't wait to volunteer!
My experience with visions a new, changed my life. I can't imagine
what my life would have been like without attending your session
almost two years ago now. I came away with friends that have
supported me all the way
I attended one of your weekend retreats a couple of years ago and
every time I get an e-mail notice from you, I remember what a
wonderful jump startthe retreat was for me in going from married to
single
As I look back over the last 6 months, I know I am much better now
than I would have been because of the things I learned and most of
all, the wonderful friends I met. I'm so glad to have our group to
depend on, and each of you makes a positive difference in my life.
I am planning on cooking at the retreat in October. I have done so
ever since our retreat in 2001. Figured that would be a good way to
give back to Margot, who gave me my life back after being shattered
as I was.
I recommend that my female divorce clients attend Visions Anew
because there is a difference between clients who attend and clients
who don't. Clients who don't are generally scared and needy because
they are frequently uninformed and feel very much alone. Clients who
do attend acquire solid, professional information and confidence
from sharing with other like-minded women." Diane Woods, Esq.
You seminar changed my life! I am forever indebted to you.
Best thing I ever did for myself after what happened to me.
We gathered together, most of us with varying emotional wounds from
our recent sojourn into the realm of separation and divorce. It was
here, amidst each other, we could really expose those wounds. And
amidst all the open wounds, we shared one other thing together ----
some laughter. That weekend was the first time since I had
separated, that I actually could laugh a little. Talk about healing
medicine!
You helped me to learn to be strong without becoming hard.
We look to you and your team as role models and a gentle resting
place on the way to the future. Thanks for bringing together all the
hurting women who together help one another to forge ahead with
confidence
The gift of encouragement was both useful and uplifting.
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We come threadbare and ragged, and leave fed, and clothed, and
befriended.
I couldn’t have handled what I am going through now if it had not
been for your retreat
I crawled in and danced out.
I gained a whole new perspective of my situation from attending the
weekend
It was a turning point for me. I saw a clear picture of the
different anxious areas that I was consumed about. It took a lot of
fear out of my experience.
It was comforting to know we could trust each other and talk openly
without judgment or shame. I learned so much, and was touched so
deeply by all the wonderful women I met. I left feeling really,
really lifted, just so spiritually high, I called Mary Ann ( the
woman who told me about your organization) to thank her.
I felt truely prepared and ready to deal with the circumstances of
my life. I no longer felt afraid and intimidated by 'divorce' and
all that goes with it..I was smiling.
The weekend was so much better than I had prepared for!!! I
realize that I am not ready for some of what went on, especially as
far as
the letting go, but the refocusing toward my children, and the
impact on
them- For that, I am especially grateful!!! And, what an interesting
group of women!!
My client had been doing nothing more than working at her part time
job and sleeping for over a year. Her recovery after the weekend
retreat was pivotal.
Jacque McFarland, LPC
You heal wounds and light paths.
That cute little stuffed duck brought back memories of that special
Valentine weekend Retreat that God so incredibly got this scared
little girl to face reality. Because of what you, Margot, do through
Visions Anew, I didn't feel alone and I returned from that weekend a
stronger woman and mom.
I felt that I was just stuck! I just could not stop trying to
analyze why things had not turned out the way that I wanted. It was
making me crazy! To make matters worst, I am currently looking for a
job, which is not a good time to be unfocused. I
can not quite put my experience at Visionsanew into words-- it was
so mind changing.
Visions Anew has catapulted me towards a more focused perspective
on my divorce, career, and as a parent of a small two year old. The
speakers all have been through a divorce and are women, so they know
what they are talking about from experience --- but the best
part was being with other women who were at different stages of the
divorce process. Having the opportunity to share with them made me
realize that, although things are painful now, things are going to
get better and that over time things can actually be great!
I FEEL LIKE I’VE “CROSSED OVER" SINCE MY WEEKEND!
I am so glad you found room for me at the retreat. The speakers were
dynamic, and gave lots of invaluable information. The friends that I
met are wonderful, caring people and I know that we will be friends
for a long, long time. Thank you and I I am grateful to whole team
for the hope you give to those of us in the midst of pain and chaos!
Filling that empty space with the love that I have for myself is
attainable given the support from a program like Visions Anew.
Thanks to the wonderful advice, direction and friendships that I
made over that weekend, I have moved out of the toxic situation that
I was living in. I am pursuing an end to my marriage armed with
knowledge and confidence; all of which I owe to your group.
Though things are still very challenging, and will be for a while, I
might never have had the courage to make this necessary change in my
life without your support
It was an enormous gift for me and I have no doubt that God put me
right there to be with you. This is such a great thing that you have
done. You have truly made a difference in many lives and certainly
in mine.
. BUT I now have quiet, peace, time to make my own decisions, AND to
change my mind without having to apologize and feel guilty.
I'm so glad we're all connected....love that universal support.
What Margot, you and all the related Visions Anew angels for women
like me is phenomenal! I wake up each morning, turn on nice music,
try to smile and try to look for all the good things in my
life....there is still so much sadness and confusion inside of me,
but I still get dressed and put one foot in front of the other
knowing that with each day that passes, I am getting closer to that
point you all say we will reach. The point where it gets better and
we can be happy again.
Thanks to Visions Anew, I feel like I am moving cautiously and
wisely in the right direction
Thanks to the wonderful advice, direction and friendships that I
made over that weekend, I have moved out of the toxic situation that
I was living in. I am pursuing an end to my marriage armed with
knowledge and confidence; all of which I owe to your group. Though
things are still very challenging, and will be for a while, I might
never have had the courage to make this necessary change in my life
without your support
I believe in your organization with all my heart and am so very
thankful God led me to your Retreat. There are no coincidences
here....I've received way too many confirmations. I'm still "Kicking
and Screaming on the Path to Transformation"......but I'm learning
to grab hold and enjoy the journey!!!
As a volunteer...I feel twinges of sadness remembering how hard the
beginning of the process was for me. I know I’ve come so far thanks
to Visions Anew
I am so thankful that I was able to attend the retreat. I am just so
amazed with your organization. Thank you so much for such an
educational experience. I feel much more confident about the
business aspects of divorce. I'm a wreck emotionally and still on
the fence about staying or leaving, but I also know, thanks to
Visions, that this is a normal phase. Just knowing I'm not losing my
mind is helpful
. Before I went on my sales call this morning I read over the
encouraging notes in my new journal - written by the amazing women I
met last weekend. What an extra boost it gave me!
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"Words seem so inadequate to express the gratitude in my heart
and soul for the Visions Anew weekend. My vision and purpose in life
have been renewed and restored. I continue on my journey with
rediscovered hope and optimism, knowing that I am not alone. I have
new-found resources and empathetic sisters, a strong support system
surrounding me. This was life giving for me." Kathryn
The week-end was perfect for me; I can't stop telling people about
your amazing work and ministry. I promise I'll never forget what you
have done for me and when I can, I'll try my best to make it up to
you. I have never met ANYONE with such genuine love for other
people. You are truly saving the lives of so many women without hope
I know I'm in for a bumpy ride. The tools that Visions Anew has
graciously extended to me (along with God's mercy) will allow me to
withstand anything
I want you to know that you were with me all morning, giving me
strength while I testified. You may not have known it, but you WERE
here in my heart and in my head encouraging me to stay strong. I
even wore my shiny gold beads! I incorporated them into my outfit
and wore them proudly. They like you all, are a circle of gold,
precious and neverending
I took advantage of all your resources and thanks to Visions Anew
came through with “flying colors.” I attribute it all to you and
your experts
Thank you for all that you do for women and for reminding us how
very special and strong we are....just seeing that photo was a
reminder
It's hard to believe it's been so long since my own retreat weekend
last summer. I signed up to help at the February one. Please, let me
know what I can do to help. Visions Anew has been such a source of
help and strength for me and I want to give back.
Kids and I are in therapy and it is helping us all tremendously. I
continue to draw on the empowerment that I learned at the workshop
and the strengh I gained from the women there.
It's just seeming so final now and is really hitting me. I had to
pull out my cards and my journal last night and they really helped.
Your organization is so worthwhile
I can't thank you enough for all of your support, discussions,
pampering, organizing and all the other important programs too
numerous to mention this weekend at Divorce Survival School. I've
been playing Deb's CD ever since I left the parking lot of the
retreat. And continue to sing along whenever I need to hear "I am
woman I am strong"
I came home a refreshed woman, smiling and happy so much so I can't
remember feeling this way for such a long time. I also came home
knowing I have now so many sisters going through this tough stuff
and together we are a united front.
: Last night, I returned from the retreat and had such warmth and
TRUE strength in my heart & mind for the first time since this
nightmare started. My mind wasn't racing and the knot in my stomach
was gone. Today, was the first day I felt "normal" inside. I
regained some sense of peace because you forced me to face the pain.
I was terrified of facing that grief alone and wouldn't allow myself
to feel it because I feared I would spiral out of control. Having
all of that love and support around me gave me the courage to face
it.
Last week I told my wasband (who by the way is not nearly as happy
with the love and passion of his life as he knew he would be) that I
felt sorry for him; but I was no longer there if he decided he
wanted me back. That was the first time in 41 years together that I
ever had the courage to say those words. That is true freedom. That
is the kind of strength our group gave me.
I will be a champion for this organization that gave me life when I
was ready to kill myself. Those are tough words - but so how I felt.
Again, I don't know where I would be if I hadn't found your
organization. I wish I had found it prior to the divorce. But thank
heavens I found it for the custody issues. What a blessing and I am
most grateful!!!
I try to remember just how desperate I was going into our retreat. I
volunteered at the Feb. retreat and not only saw how much the new
sisters were helped and supported but I also saw just how far I've
come in a year
Thanks for the great tips today as well as all the vital advice and
resources from our recent retreat. It must be both very rewarding
and challenging to be the hands and feet of God to these wonderful
women who need Him so much
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You women made me so proud tonight. I went to dinner with my
family after the wake and they talked about what wonderful women
you all are. My sisters, which are a difficult bunch to impress,
talked so much about all the warmth that came into that room
when you arrived. They couldn't believe I met such a great group
of people at the retreat. My family talked about how you guys
worked the room talking to folks and offering sympathy and just
being unbelievably kind to everyone.
There is no way in the world I can express how much each one of
you made me feel tonight. I have been pretty down this week not
having a husband to hold my hand through my Mother’s death. Both
my sisters' husbands are standing by their side and it can feel
overwhelmingly lonely standing alone. I wasn't standing alone
tonight for the first time during these horrific past two weeks.
I actually couldn't even grieve tonight after you left because I
felt so excited about all of you showing up and talking so
kindly to my father and telling everyone how great I am (in
front of my sisters, co-workers, bosses, etc). No husband in the
world would have made me feel so proud and happy to be me. I
don't know if I'm making sense but you women have no idea what
you gave me tonight. It is a gift I will always, always
remember. I truly think that God rallied the troops for me
tonight and he sent you.
Your cards were amazing! The picture of all of us is next to me.
I never thought I would cherish a picture where my ass looked so
big. I'm going to have it framed. My family even commented on
the gift bag you brought me and how incredibly kind and
thoughtful it was. You guys blew me away - I mean it - just
absolutely blew me away. Thank you so much for making me feel
like a "wanted" human being again. I am so incredibly blessed to
have you guys in my lives. Next Friday I am there!!!! I owe each
of you so much after tonight. God - THANK YOU!!!!!!!
Last night, I returned from the retreat and had such warmth and
TRUE strength in my heart & mind for the first time since this
nightmare started. My mind wasn't racing and the knot in my
stomach was gone. Today, was the first day I felt "normal"
inside. I regained some sense of peace because I faced the pain.
I was terrified of facing that grief alone and wouldn't allow
myself to feel it because I feared I would spiral out of
control. Having all of that love and support around me gave me
the courage to face it.
I will never forget what all of you gave me.
Thank you so much! I have peace, clarity and strength again.
What a gift!
Amazing, Insightful, and EVERYONE was kind, generous, and
helpful! A true healing balm! Each person set a special example.
Thank you for sending me.
Thanks to all of you, my spirit dances daily. KW
The support I received from Visions Anew
staff and volunteers has kept me sane and
safe.....
I really was smooth and calm and I just really was proud of
myself! Thank you! The retreat truly has put me back in touch
with me. I can do anything I put my mind to! Jennifer
Visions Anew has saved my sanity, helped me stay true and deal
with reality...
God bless you for all you've done to help me through it all. I
wouldn't be where I am now if it hadn't been for Visions Anew
and all the friends I've met there.
The retreat was an amazing experience and I will be eternally
grateful to all of the women there.
I find it hard to believe it has just been a year since my VA
anniversary. I don't think I could have done this without
Visions Anew. I certainly would not have been more informed than
my 'wasband'. That has been the key. That, and the message of
"always take the high road. Laura
Because of the weekend at Visions Anew I was strong and prepared
for the next weekend. Coming on that retreat was the best thing
that's happened to me all year.
I've said time and time again that Divorce School changed my
thinking....and thus my life. I owe you much. Lisa
, just talking with other intelligent ladies that were facing
the same problems, gave me a boost that helped me to make it
over the fence
There is something VERY special and unique about us women who
have gone thru divorce. All of us have our own stories and pain
to cope and live with. In a weekend like this we come together
to obtain information to help us cope with many aspects of
divorce. We share our most personal feelings, fears, and hopes
with women we have just met....strangers but connected in a way
we can all understand. By Sunday we are not strangers anymore,
we are sisters and the bonds are there between all of us. That
weekend was a most unforgettable experience Debbie
Can't thank you enough for doing what you're doing.
Someday I would like to give back what you've given others and
me. God bless, Cooper
Life is going forward, Margot. Even in the midst of chaos, life
is going forward. I am SO thankful for how Visions Anew has
helped me and the wonderful friends I made while there. Beth
Visions Anew is a life raft to so many of us. Without it I would
not have been able to move forward. Val
I had the "best time in my entire life" last weekend! It was by
far one of the best experiences I have had in all of my 44
years. I am doing great now that I am back home and back to
reality; I have a renewed sense of hope and promise for my
future. I am ready to take on the world! Juanita
Thank you so much again for the haven you provide for divorcing
women. You make it possible to rise above the shame,
hopelessness and fear we all experience, and I will find a way
to give back! Pat
. I have you to thank for bringing us together. Never
underestimate the power of your mission!
Yes, this weekend was AMAZING and we are a bunch of AMAZING
women! A new, sunny day is dawning
My son, Nicky, includes "Mommy's new friends" (from the retreat)
in his prayers each night...at my request, of course, and now he
never forgets :)
-Michelle
Good Luck, Brett. Remember, there is a bigger plan for us. You
may not know now, what it is. If things don't work out the way
you want, keep your head up. Staying motivated is a huge asset.
That in itself, is a skill many employers look for. And, it is a
skill, that one learns, from the school of life. What did Margot
refer to... after a door is closed, the windows that are open.
She didn't say one window is open, she said plural, windows. God
bless you. You are in my prayers. Love, Carrie
Visions Anew gave me SO much I WANT to give back. I have set
backs from time to time but thanks to my Visions experience, I
am healing.
Your weekend was exactly what I needed. I feel empowered, more
focused; informed, valued, understood, encouraged, loved….the
list goes on. Becki
My divorce papers were signed on our 38th anniversary, August
24. I felt depleted most of the day until I remembered our
affirmation cards. My theme from that tremendous retreat has
been “I will be happy.” Sincere thanks from every fiber of my
being for that weekend. It was worth every minute I spent on the
Greyhound bus from Alabama!
The tunnel is over the light is bright and all is progressing
happily in my life ---well, mostly - The worst is all over, and
thanks to you and your group I got through it all feeling safe.
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